February 2012
1 post
January 2012
3 posts
Saturday, Belle told me to take a bath and jack off. I was allowed to come. Knowing that it was probably my last time for a while, I drew it out and spewed copiously. Would have been better has she been with me, though. I have clearly been conditioned to feel that a solo shot is inferior to an accompanied one.
Yesterday, I was told to stay out of the device until today since she might want to...
December 2011
2 posts
Daniel’s, as highlighted by the leather chaps he was wearing in Cowboys and Aliens, is very fine while Tom’s, as highlighted by his too tight jeans in Mission Impossible 4, is just kinda fat.
Tagged: male objectification
November 2011
8 posts
Om Malik is maybe one of the most famous and prolific bloggers out there. I admit I don’t read him that often, but I know who he is. The reason I mention him is because he, one of the most famous and prolific bloggers out there, has been blogging for 10 years. A few days ago, he wrote a recap of his decade of blogging and included a list of lessons he’s learned. While our blogs are not comparable...
Using the Flipboard iPad app to browse your Tumblr dashbord is fantastic. The perfect porn consumption combination. Highly recommended.
UPDATE: I take “perfect” back. It only seems to load a finite number of posts. It would be perfect if it kept loading them infinitely. Still. Very pretty.
Tagged: porn
As I said the other day, Belle let me out over the weekend and left me that way for a couple days. Today’s HNThumper was obviously taken during that period. Click the read more link for the massively NSFW pic.
All greased up with the silicone lube, but don’t worry. The lidocaine was in use and I couldn’t feel a damned thing. Didn’t even dribble.
Previous HNThumpers here. Read all about...
Following a recent comment by a faithful reader who was seeming to suggest that the quality of my content was perhaps not as good as should be desired from a blogger of my reputation and obvious skills, I have decided to heed his advice and bring you a few news items you may find humorous/informative/better than my usual drivel.
First up, researchers have discovered a link between those men who...
When you’ve got a 5 5/8″ long penis stuffed into a 2 3/4″ long tube, you will typically find yourself waking up at some point early in the morning when the penile tumescence kicks in. “Penile tumescence” is, for those who don’t know, a fancy way of saying “morning wood”. Unless you’ve got something wrong with the plumbing down there, it’s inevitable.
For me, the Steelheart Short is like...
Here’s how bad it’s gotten. See that floor tile? It’s from our bathroom. Specifically, it’s the floor right in front of our toilet. I get to look at it a lot since, as most everyone know, it’s easier to pee into a toilet sitting down when wearing a chastity device (some of them require it).
Anyways, I’m sitting there looking at this tile and all of a sudden I see something I’ve never seen...
The deal is, I’m really fucking horny. Soooo fucking horny. And Belle’s on the rag. God. Damn. It.
This morning, we were rolling around in bed (read: I was holding on to her while I rolled around in frustration), kissing her face and putting my hand on her ass and generally going mad. I got pretty worked up. So much so, that a little later I had one of those patented long-term chastity precum...
“It’s nearly November, Thumpie.”
“Yeah…?”
“November’s your month.”
“No it’s not. You said December was.”
Pause. “I did?”
“Yes! You said December!”
I pulled up the relevant blog entry on my phone and showed her.
“Oh,” she said, “You’ve still got a ways to go, don’t you?”
Fuck.
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We were out Saturday night on a date when that exchange took place. We saw a movie and were having a late dinner...
October 2011
8 posts
Belle let me out of my confinement last Wednesday night in anticipation of our family trip to New York the following day. I had been encased for two solid weeks at that point, but I didn’t get much chance to enjoy my freedom since we were up late packing and the alarm went off in the wee hours of the next day so we could catch our flight. Then, three nights with the four of us in a Manhattan...
Trying out my new phone’s brilliant camera, as applied to HNT, and simultaneously celebrating the third anniversary of the first time I was locked into a chastity device. I was such a pup back then.
Shot with an iPhone 4S and manipulated in a variety of applications. And yeah, I know, I could use a trim down there.
Click for a ridiculously large version suitable for framing, wrapping fish, or...
I was supposed to be out last weekend. Belle had said I would be, but it didn’t work out that way.
The plan was for the family to go camping with another family we’re friends with at a local state park. Not real camping since there would be electricity and a bathroom nearby (with real running water), plus about a hundred other people in neighboring campsites. Not at all like I’m used to. But, in...
Today is the third anniversary of Denying Thumper.
627 posts
Half a million words(?)
8,923 video views
2,753 comments
37 HNThumpers
Still going strong.
Had I more time, I’d get all introspectively Thumpery, but I’m rushed today. Couldn’t let the day pass without a post, though.
I’ve only just noticed that Tickleberry.co.uk appears to be…dead. It was one of the very first sites I found three years ago that helped me wrap my brain around this nascent chastity kink I was getting into. It was full of some really excellent practical information. Not only that, they had some freakin’ hot videos of sexy guys being tormented by evil women.
I admit to never having purchased from...
Celtic Queen, in response to my last post, left the following comment:
Thumper, this sounds like a trite question (it isn’t meant to be) but are you happier as a person now?
Put another way, did control of your sex make you unhappy?
Then Chaz added…
You state that your OK with it. I think those that say you are trained might offer congratulations, yet I get more a sense of resigned...
After almost three years of living with a penis locked into some kind of device, it’s often felt like a battle was going on inside me. My inclination to want to be dominated and denied going up against my hormonally-supercharged sex drive. It didn’t help that the very nature of being denied by a device is, in itself, a kind of sex play that kept desire for actual sex play top of mind.
If you’ve...
For no other reason than it’s been a while…
And yeah, I know it’s not Thursday!
Previous HNThumpers here. Read all about Half-Nekkid Thursday over at Osbasso’s.
Tagged: chastity devices, enforced chastity, HNT, male chastity, Steelheart, Steelworxx
September 2011
8 posts
Found on the internet.
Last month, reader Chris asked for some Steelheart buying advice. He’s back!
An update: I’ve been wearing the CB6000s for a few days now and it is a tighter fit for sure…
I bet! I never got a CB6Ks tube because I misunderstood why one would want it. I would ask if it was better or not, but then you said…
But my erections now seem to just push the entire device fwd so that the A ring slides up...
Being a blogger who blogs about personal stuff is kinda weird. On the one hand, I do it because it helps satisfy a need I have to write about my life. On the other, there’s all these people who read it. Sometimes, I’m not entirely sure it’s a good thing that I do this so publicly (yet privately), but I do and there are a fairly decent number of you reading it. How much of what I say is showing off...
It’s been a month now since I came in that nice hotel room all by myself and against the rules. Well, not so much against the rules. More like against The Rule™. Belle says I have just one more night of having to sleep with clothes on but at least two more months before she lets me come again. Just this morning, right after she came, in my charmingly squirmy and needy way, I asked he if she was...
Mykey said, in response to my suggestion that Belle could punish me with an extension of my denial:
Can’t see the denial working. Belle doesn’t like that control not being hers, as you’ve found when trying fixed long periods before.
If I had suggested the denial extension and Belle had said, “Oh, yeah, good idea. We’ll do that,” then I’d agree with you. It’s why I’m hesitant to suggest these...
I’m absolutely gobsmacked to find Denying Thumper reviewed on the fantastic JanesGuide.com. Thank you, Vamp, for the kind words! Here’s what she had to say about the site:
This blog started way back in October of 2008, and it has kept going strong! It chronicles the very personal and erotic journey of Thumper, a man who is devoted to his wife of 11 years and exceptionally turned on by male...
It’s been bad sleeping the past few nights. I have a hard time getting to sleep (or even feeling sleepy), then have a hard time staying asleep, then have to deal with insistent erections from about 4:00 AM on that wake me up. I have a few tricks to make them go away, but the most efective is to get up and pee. So anyway, crappy sleep. Occupational hazard of the chronically denied.
Belle and I...
I only have the two nipples, but over time, we’ve collected six different types of pinchy things with which to torture them. I realized the other day that they’re not all created equal so I thought I’d write a little missive on each explaining why I like some but not others.
Each will be rated on three attributes using a scale of 1 (worst) to 5 (best):
Pinchiness — In short, how much to they...
August 2011
7 posts
I was away from Belle and unlocked for one night last week. Thursday night, to be precise. The night before, I was so jacked up and horny that I slept only a few hours here and there. I kept waking up with the kind of stuffed tube that only feeds upon itself with all kinds of visions and scenarios spinning in my head.
So, as I boarded the aircraft the next morning and flew a few hours to make a...
And, you know, my birthday is coming up. I’ve been a good boy.
Well, pretty good. Mostly good. Not that I had a lot of choice.
Tagged: njoy, sex toys
Since I just got back from my last week-long camping and hiking extravaganza of the year, I really don’t have much to blog about. Luckily, I received a question via the feedback page and have decided I could cheat my way into having a post by answering it here.
Reader Chris says…
I am planning to order a Steelheart device and have used your blog as a primary resource on learning about it’s pros...
RougueBambi said, regarding comments left by other readers of my previous post:
I really don’t understand, how someone can “not understand the bisexual thing” after what Thumper just wrote. It’s not a thing you choose. It’s a fucking sexuality.
I think what they were saying when they wrote they couldn’t understand bisexuality was the same thing I said in my post, “It’s hard for me to relate...
I was having an email exchange the other day with a reader who identifies as bisexual about what it was like to be sexually attracted by both genders myself, specifically as a young person. It’s hard for me to relate today to someone who doesn’t find something appealing about both male and female forms. Not just the shape of their bodies and format of their genitals, but the very different...
Back in the can today. I woke up and the little annoyed spot was 86% healed. Not sure what it is about the skin in that area of the body, but is seems to put itself right faster than other skin.
So, I worked out this morning all free and floppy (figured there was no reason to make stuff grind down there any more than necessary), showered without rubbing for the genie (bonus points should be...
I’m enjoying a temporary reprieve from isolated confinement thanks to a small hot spot that popped up under my scrotum. It’s in a weird location (as in, I don’t normally have problems there) and is reminiscent of the issues I used to have with the plastic CB6K. I suspect it’s from going to bed one night sans lube. In any event, I got out this morning and will probably be OK to go back in...
Belle finally wanted some action this morning. We were laying in bed being lazy and she said those magic words.
Just in time, too. The continued absence of my ability to pleasure her was starting to eat away at me. It actually seemed like a physical thing wedged between us. I will say it for the hundredth time, if I can’t turn my sexual energy towards myself, then I need to put it somewhere. If...
July 2011
12 posts
Also, Daniel Craig has a fine, fine ass. Also also, he spends the whole movie wearing leather chaps. Momma.
Yeah, I’m going to have to see it again.
My list of required activities is complete. She has written up those things I am expected to do day in and day out and also a list of one-off projects or activities. I’ve put the reoccurring things on my personal calendar so my phone should help me stay on task. Things like laundry twice a week, dinner twice a week, foot massages, etc., all have been specified in the software to remind me they...
The hardest part of living like this, for all you budding chastity/denial aficionados, is not the part where she strokes you, licks you, fucks you and leaves you throbbing hard, dripping, and desperate for more. No, that’s the good part. The hardest part is when she doesn’t let you, for whatever reason, have access to her body.
The situation should be familiar to anyone paying attention. I am...
No, this isn’t going to be one of those posts where I relate how difficult it is being the woebegone orgasm starved male. But, it could be and that’s the rub.
Somehow, I’m in a fantastic place at the moment. I’m horny as hell and so totally into Belle and feeling all subbie and service oriented and all the things that leave me with a filled tube and a warm fuzzy. I am painfully desirous of her,...
I decided yesterday to go commando. I hardly ever go to work or into the world like this anymore, but yesterday was warm and I was wearing roomy, breezy shorts and the muse moved me. While getting dressed, I simply left the underwear on the bed.
Once I got to work, I was walking across the parking lot toward the building and enjoying the stiff breeze blowing against me. The really hot weather had...
Dietmar has a new toy to drool over. It’s called The Looker 03 and sports a PA “shackle” (damn, but if that’s not a sexy word) that’s reminiscent of a Steelwerks Extreme lock.
I see this and my immediate, visceral reaction is, “Woof!” But I have a few concerns:
The damned thing costs, at current exchange rates (less VAT), $494.
I can’t imagine you’d be able to wear that and pee standing up. The...
Belle gave me the key yesterday morning just as she was leaving for the day. I admit I asked for it, but she gave it freely. She left me there in bed (I had the day off and was supposedly sleeping in) so I rolled over to her nightstand drawer and took the Steelheart out of the flowery little drawstring bag she put it in when I left two weeks ago.
Getting the ring on was difficult. For one, I was...
Still on vacation! I scheduled this HNT twofer before I left.
I am, at heart, a nudist. Belle calls me an exhibitionist, and that’s probably true, too, but I don’t think they’re the same thing. I really like to be naked but I’m not particularly interested in being caught in that condition.
As avid readers of this blog may know, Belle and I are fortunate enough to have access to a family cabin...
OK, so maybe I will squeeze in one more post before I’m out of here…
Regarding the Jail Bird, it’s not going to happen. Aware that I’ve never been able to stay in that device for more than a few days without developing significant discomfort and suspecting that it’s likely a fit and spacing issue, I decided to try something I read about on Chastity Forums. Not sure who it was that did it, but...
Last night, Belle and I had a fight. A screaming, nasty, bitter fight. It wasn’t about sex or anything like that, but it was unresolved when she fell asleep and we woke up this morning on tender hooks around each other and even this evening (though perhaps less so).
After she was asleep, I popped the emergency key and took the device off. The scope and scale of the altercation made it simply...
June 2011
3 posts
Let’s see, where was I…
As you might have guessed, Belle let me come about a week ago. That’s not entirely why I wasn’t blogging, but it was a big part of it. I was also distracted by some other stuff (nothing related to Belle or anything I write about here), but mainly it was the orgasm.
I can’t even recall exactly when it was now. A week ago? Maybe ten days? We were up at the cabin and she...